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"Smell the sea and feel the sky, let your soul and spirit fly" - Van Morrison 

Using AI Reflectively and Safely

AI is increasingly being used for reflection, emotional organisation and meaning-making — and sometimes these interactions can feel surprisingly personal.

Using AI Reflectively and Safely explores why this happens, what we bring from our own relational histories into our encounters with AI, and how to use reflective technology without losing discernment, embodied experience or human connection.

Grounded in relational psychotherapy and including a practical AI Reliability Framework, the book offers a thoughtful middle path between fearing AI and idealising it.

- a companion text for staying in relational contact in the digital age

This guide may be for you if…
You use AI to reflect on emotions, relationships or personal experiences; you sometimes turn to it between therapy sessions; you’ve noticed that conversations with AI can feel surprisingly personal or reassuring; or you want to make use of AI’s reflective possibilities without losing your own discernment, embodied experience or connection with other people.

AI is increasingly being used for reflection, emotional organisation and meaning-making — and sometimes these interactions can feel surprisingly personal.

Using AI Reflectively and Safely explores why this happens, what we bring from our own relational histories into our encounters with AI, and how to use reflective technology without losing discernment, embodied experience or human connection.

Grounded in relational psychotherapy and including a practical AI Reliability Framework, the book offers a thoughtful middle path between fearing AI and idealising it.

Table of Contents

Why AI Feels so Powerful

What People Bring with Them to Their AI Experience

What Would My Therapist Say?

Reflection or Retreat?

What AI May Reveal About Us

Using AI Intentionally and Relationally

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Sample Pages

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7 Signs

That Emotional Neglect May Have Shaped You

(pdf to download)

4 High-Value Skills

Skills For Life - Recovery From Emotional Neglect

(short video format)

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