If I’ve heard it once, I’ve heard it a million times. You have to love yourself first! Yeah what? I had absolutely no idea what people were talking about. I was a giver, and I had learned to give and give, and just maybe someday someone would love me in return. Kindness towards self? Caring and nurturing towards self? Giving to self? These are the things I needed to learn to understand love. And more. My most profound learning experience was when the one person in the world t