When helpful begins to hurt
When we are super helpful, offering to support and do for others to make sure that their requests are met, we often attract a lot of positive feedback and heart-warming appreciation. It feels lovely to receive that appreciation. We feel as though we are building good relationships. We feel kind and considerate and helpful. We might even become known for our generosity. Sometimes it comes at a cost One of the signs that it's a bit out of balance is when we begin to feel twinge